September 21, 2012 · 3:24 pm

More Romantic Remembrances!

Our newest Romantic Remembrance comes from Voni Harris, whose fabulous blog can be found here.

Here’s Voni’s Romantic Remembrance:

Rich and I met at Drake University at Intervarsity Christian Fellowship. (I had to go to SOME kind of church to stay on God’s good side, and I worked on-campus on Sundays, but. Intervarsity met mid-week.) I remember being astounded that those people really believed that Bible stuff—to the point of actually living it. Rather shook my easy-believism to the core.

One day Sara Weddington, the attorney for Roe in the abortion case Roe v Wade, came to campus to make a speech, and I was assigned to interview her for my TV journalism class. To complete my report, I needed the name of a particular legal case about abortion, so I ran into the law library for help.

And there was Rich behind the desk. Just getting off work.

Abortion is one of his hot-button topics (he’s against it!), so he volunteered to help me. We began talking, and never stopped.

Soon, I realized two things: Our relationship was getting serious, and I couldn’t just say I was a Christian for Rich’s sake.

Those two things meant one simple thing: I needed to decide once and for all what I really, truly believed about Christ. And that is when I gave my life to Christ to do with as He wishes, and I’ve never looked back. He is God and He is trustworthy and good.

Rich and I drove from Des Moines to Wyoming so that he could meet my parents. While we were there, Mom and Dad took us out to eat at a pretty fancy steak place. Rich looked Dad in the eyes, and said, “I’d like your permission to marry your daughter, Sir.”

My Dad looked up, grinned, shrugged and said, “You’ll have to take that up with her.” Then he simply took another bite of his food.

So, Rich asked me to marry him, and I said, “Of course I will!”

On another note, this same father of mine announced, “Yo, Adrienne!” (from the Rocky movies) when the pastor asked, “Who gives this woman to be wed” during the wedding rehearsal.

Our wedding itself was, frankly, kind of empty. Since his family is from Indiana, and mine was from Wyoming, we met in the middle and had the wedding in Des Moines. Unfortunately, we scheduled it during Drake’s fall break, so very few of our friends were in Des Moines at the time. On the other hand, it meant so very much that so many of our family members were able to drive in. Their love meant a lot, because we knew they were sacrificing family vacations to support us.

I hope that our commitment to each other, through arguments, bad times, good times, celebrations, blah times and all, demonstrates the unconditional love that God has for us.

I hope that people see that Christ is the center of our marriage so much that His love cannot be denied because His love overflows to those He has put into our lives. Most especially our daughter, Leah.

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August 28, 2012 · 3:06 pm

Romantic Remembrances!

My new feature is called ROMANTIC REMEMBRANCES! Short, sweet real-life stories of romance. My first guest author is (drumroll, please . . . ) Kristy L. Cambron! Kristy writes vintage romance with a heart for Christ . . .  HERE.

She posted this wonderful story there on July 23, 2012:

Stilettos and Stars

Ralph Waldo Emerson once said: “The earth laughs in flowers.” If that’s true, then I believe a woman laughs in a fabulous pair of heels.

We women adore heels.

‘Tis true, my friends. We do. Some of us will wear anything from stilettos to kittens, just as long as we have a little lift when we leave the house for the day. Rain, snow and ice? We’ll grab a sturdy pair of wedges. A pair of jeans and an outdoor concert? For us it’s heels that won’t sink in the grass. Black and white spectators, mustard-yellow satin, bows at the ankles or turquoise with peacock feathered jewels on the top –  we love a pair of unbelievably gorgeous heels and don’t care who knows it.

So you’d think someone that buys into that philosophy could find the right heels for every occasion short of a marathon, right?

It was just dusk, dreamily so, with a soft September wind and cloudless sky that invited us to spend the evening out of doors, like an old friend that had welcomed us home.

My date drove down the gravel driveway to his grandmother’s home and pulled the truck to a stop in the center of a rural dreamworld. It was peaceful, calm. It had a background laden with cricket-song. it had a shining moon overhead and a truly remarkable view of open fields with the occasional firefly floating up from the tall grass. We hopped in his truck bed and sat on a quilt, just gazing up at the marvelous expanse of stars up ahead.

And as if God  whispered my name out there in the quiet, I felt peace…

I’d never seen such a clear night sky. I suppose I’d always lived on the edge of a city and perhaps the sky was hazy because of it? Maybe I’d just never taken the time to really pause and appreciate a sparkling ceiling overhead? Whatever the reason, you’d have thought it odd for an eighteen-year-old girl to find herself so awestruck by a handful of stars overhead, but I was. Clearly I was; all these years later, the memory is still crisp in my mind.

I also realized that my heels didn’t fit the scene in my date’s countryside. I remember slipping them off and tossing them in the truck bed as if they didn’t matter. And it was funny, but in that moment, they didn’t. Instead we sat, the two of us just talking and holding hands, with my feet bare and my heart open to remembering. I memorized the smile on his face and that romantically sweet, oh-so starry sky overhead.

I remember the cadence of the breeze as it patted my face.

I remember the coolness of our night as it knocked on autumn’s door.

I remember falling in love with the clear sky… I remember falling in love with him.

That memory with my someday-to-be husband is still fresh today… I remember it now as the night of Stilettos and Stars.

Have you ever had a moment like that, one so remarkable that your memory has honored it with its own name? That night will always be Stilettos and Stars for me.  It will always remind me of the power of simple, the magic of quiet, and the sweetness of honest beginnings. It stays in my heart. It gives a remembrance of the moments that God steps in and makes a connection with us – when He delights in giving us the desires of our hearts (even if we didn’t really know what we wanted).

If someone had handed me a fast $1000 to do with whatever I wanted, shoe shopping would probably have crossed my mind. I doubt I’d ever have thought of buying a few extra moments under a September sky from some fifteen years ago. But now? Given my choice? I’d pay to be back there again. I’d pay to toss a pair of Jimmy Choo heels in the back of a truck bed like they don’t matter, and appreciate the stars with my husband’s fingers laced with mine.

“He took him outside and said, ‘Look up at the stars and count them – if indeed you can count them.’ “

~ Genesis 15:5

I am five-months pregnant and yes, I am still wearing heels. I’m not driving an old pick-up or taking jaunts through the rural field grasses mind you, but I am still enjoying the subtle smile that a pair of heels gives me on a busy weekday morning. And sometimes, just sometimes, I smile when I put on a pair because I remember how unimportant they truly are. They’re pretty, but I want more. I want to remember the starry moments. I remember the glittering sky and my heart’s finding of peace in that place. I remember God making an appearance, His breath and His whisper shielding us in peace, and putting His thumbprint on our lives.

It was a perfect sky. A sweet memory. A spectacular pair of heels that matter not at all. Thank you, God, for those moments born of you.

What are your “Stilettos and Stars” moments with God?

-Kristy L. Cambron

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April 12, 2012 · 3:49 pm

Book Update!

My first novel, Amberly, will be released this summer!!  As we close in on the date, I’ll be having promotions and events to celebrate on various blogs with giveaway prizes. Please go to Facebook and “Like” my Author Page to get up-to-date information.

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December 27, 2011 · 11:40 pm

Keeping Holy in Holidays

My conscience stabbed me in the back last week when our pastor Jim Britt asked, “Are we too busy celebrating the King of Kings to spend time with Him?” While I do have devotions every day, I’ve been as guilty as anyone lately of speeding through my precious time with God so I can get on with the task of speeding through all the other tasks and events of the holidays.

Our friend Uk Chong, serving God in Thailand, wrote on his family’s Christmas card this year, “We wish you the ability to focus on the birth of Jesus like the Wise Men did when they followed the star on their long journey. May all the distractions fall into the background and may the most glorious Christmas gift shine His light into your life.”

Charles Spurgeon wrote the following for December 25 in Morning and Evening, “It ought not to be true, but it is true, that our days of feasting are very seldom days of sanctified enjoyment, but too frequently degenerate into unhallowed mirth.” Thankfully, he also wrote, “Have you been forgetful of your high calling?…Then confess the sin, and fly to the sacrifice…This is the best ending of a Christmas – to wash anew in the purifying fountain. Believer, come to this sacrifice continually; if it is so good tonight, it is good every night. To live at the altar is the privilege of the royal priesthood.”

Let’s celebrate our Lord’s birth and enjoy our precious time with friends and family. But let’s never forget to honor Him in our hearts through every bit of it.

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November 30, 2011 · 3:03 am

If Shakespeare Had Written the Three Little Pigs…

This is HILARIOUS!   Three Little Pigs by Shakespeare

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June 29, 2011 · 12:37 am

The Prodigal God – Part 2 – The Elder Brother

According to Tim Keller in The Prodigal God, the elder brother in the prodigal son parable seeks happiness through moral rectitude rather than by the way of self-discovery like his younger brother. The problem isn’t that he seeks to act rightly, but that he expects his righteous behavior to pay off for his benefit. While the younger brother defies his father by acting according to his own desires outside of his father’s direction, the elder brother rejects the father by failing to honor him. He does not address him with respect, but treats him with scorn. Why does he do this? Consider the inheritance. The younger brother squandered his inheritance. What remains? Only that which is designated for the older brother. He has served his father faithfully and views the fatted calf as belonging to him. Does it?

What do we claim is righfully ours because we have served faithfully? Health? Security? Children who bless us?

It’s also interesting that the parable doesn’t have a neat ending. The younger brother comes in to the celebration, but the elder brother remains outside. He rejects both the father and the repentant sinner who has returned home. I would add that he also rejects all the others who have come to celebrate with them. Let’s make sure we don’t do that.

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June 11, 2011 · 9:37 pm

The Prodigal God – Part 1 – The Younger Son

I’m reading through The Prodigal God by Timothy Keller and thought I’d share my thoughts with you as I go. It’s based on – you guessed it – the parable of the Prodigal Son from Luke 15.
Keller suggests that the story might best be named the parable of the Two Lost Sons. The younger son requests his inheritance while his father is living, which is equivalent to wishing him dead. This is the same thing we do when we crave God’s blessings but not God Himself. Keller refers to this son’s approach as the way of self-discovery. “In this view,” he says, “the world would be a far better place if tradition, prejudice, hierarchical authority, and other barriers to personal freedom were weakened or removed… The person choosing the way of self-discovery says, ‘I’m the only one who can decide what is right or wrong for me. I’m going to live as I want to live and find my true self and happiness that way.'”
Anyone would recognize the sin of the younger brother as he humiliates his family and lives a self-indulgent life. His sin is marked by flagrant defiance, and he is like the “tax collectors and sinners” who were drawn to Jesus.

But I’m led to ask myself – in what ways am I defiant like the younger son? What areas of my life do I seek to wrench away from God’s control? The way to tell is to ask where I stomp my feet when God’s ways conflict with how I want to live and what I feel like doing.

Have I convinced myself I’m a night person because I can be creative after hours and prefer doing that than to rising early in order to prepare for caring for my family? Ouch. That one pins me to the wall. Am I selfishly coveting my time to enjoy doing what I want rather than serving others? Do I seek out the folks who stroke my ego or enjoy the same things I do or make me laugh rather than those who most need friends? Do I honor others in the little things, like preparing what my family members enjoy for meals and serving out the best portions to them rather than myself? It’s incredible to me how tempting it is every day to snag that nice hunk of grilled steak or the piece of salmon I prefer while serving out!
And then I have to ask the harder questions. Am I neglectful or stingy with my time with God, or in my feelings toward others, or in my motivations – even for doing good things? May God have mercy on me, because I am.
And, thankfully, He does.
More on that next time…

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June 8, 2011 · 1:45 am

No, We’re Not Expecting

But thought you might enjoy a chuckle with this:

A Bible Study on Pregnancy

Enlarging belly:
Your waist is a (heaping) mound of wheat, encircled by lilies (ok, very long lilies). -Song of Solomon 7:2b

Morning sickness:
You yourself will suffer severe sickness, a lingering disease of the bowels, day after day (after day after day…). – 2 Chronicles 21:15

Flatulence:
We were with child, we writhed in pain, but gave birth only to wind. – Isaiah 26:18a

Urination:
Go. – Matthew 28:19
Yes, go… – Exodus 2:8a
Run… – 1 Samuel 20:36
Run now! – 2 Kings 4:26

Pregnancy diet:
If you find honey, eat just enough. Too much of it, and you will vomit.
– Proverbs 25:16

Maternity clothing:
Enlarge the place of your tent, stretch your tent curtains wide. Spare not! Lengthen all your cords. – Isaiah 54:2

Maternity underwear:
And you shall make for them linen breeches to cover their loins; from
the torso even unto the thighs they shall reach. – Exodus 28:42

Sleep:
The bed is too small to stretch out on; the blanket too narrow to stretch around you. – Isaiah 28:20

Absentmindedness:
Even as (she) walks along the road, the fool lacks sense and shows
everyone how stupid (she) is. – Ecclesiastes 10:2

Medical restriction from sex:
Then the Lord became angry with me and said, “You shall not enter.”
– Deuteronomy 1:37

Baby kicking during church:
The mountain skipped like a ram; the hills like little lambs.
-Psalm 114:4

Water Breaking:
You are a garden fountain, a well of flowing water streaming down from
Lebanon. – Song of Solomon 4:15

If the clouds are full of water, they will pour rain upon the earth.
– Ecclesiastes 11:3a

Hospital attire:
Strip off your lovely clothes, put sackcloth around your waists. -Isaiah 33:11

Bad breath during labor:
(Her) breath sets coals ablaze, and flames dart from (her) mouth.
-Job 41:21

Husbands during labor:
It is not permitted them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience to their spouses, as the Law says. -1 Corinthians 14:34

Do not be overrighteous, neither be overwise – why destroy yourself?
– Ecclesiastes 7:16

Overdue:
You are a garden locked up, my sister, my bride. You are a spring enclosed, a sealed fountain (no, mountain). -Song of Solomon 4:12

Labor not progressing:
My soul is in anguish. How long, O Lord, how long? Turn, O Lord,
and deliver me! – Psalm 6:3-4

Epesiotomy:
He opened the doors of the temple, and then he repaired them.
– 2 Chronicles 29:3

Nursing:
I would give you spiced wine to drink, the nectar of my pomegranates. – Song of Solomon 8:2b.

Nursing bras:
Therefore, put on the full armor of God…with the breastplate of righteousness firmly in place. -Ephesians 6:11,14

Breast pumps:
Beat your breasts — for the fruit of the vines. Isaiah 32:12

Any dignity you’ve ever had is gone forever:
I am a handmaiden of the Lord. – Luke 1:38

Written by Mary Elizabeth Hall, with love, for my fellow preggos at Community Bible Study in Opelika, AL in March 1996

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May 31, 2011 · 6:09 pm

Thoughts on Turning Forty

(Written a few years ago at age 39.9)

Speaking from the last week of my youth, I thought I’d share with you a few thoughts I’ve had lately. Thought I’d better get them down before next week when my memory goes! Tee hee hee…

I have been praying about 40 and BEYOND, and I’ve finally reached the point where I’m truly looking forward to this next stage of my life. I’ve learned much over the last few years, and I’m still healthy enough to enjoy it!

I wouldn’t want to be 20 again and go through all those decisions and uncertainties (not to mention the student loans!). I have been richly blessed in many ways, and I’m very thankful.

I am learning how important it is to stop complaining at God – and be very, very thankful for His many blessings to me.

I am much more disciplined in both my thinking and my living than I used to be. I see the value of it now.

I’m not as concerned about how my house looks as I used to be – I’m much more interested in welcoming and deeply enjoying those God brings to my home.

I’m not living my life to seek people’s admiration anymore. I’m not impressing God – why on earth should I seek to impress people? Let me love, serve, and enjoy them instead.

I have learned that each person I meet is like a new continent to be explored and enjoyed. Each one is created in God’s image, and is more precious than any other part of creation.

I know how to be a much better parent than I used to be.

I know how to be a much better wife than I used to be.

I know how to be a much better friend than I used to be.

I know much better that my heart is terribly self-centered and sinful, and I’m starting to really hate that. That means I’m becoming a better Christian than I used to be.

I know much more scripture by heart than I used to, and am learning to use it as a lamp unto my feet.

I am learning to let my faith be my shield.

I have learned to let His Spirit be the sword that fends off my enemies,

And I have learned the wonderful joy of continually repenting and living in His sweet grace.

All these things also mean my life is a much better example to those who are following behind me.

Let me do everything I do for God’s glory, living only to hear Him one day say, “Well done, good and faithful servant!”

Let me age with grace. Let the lines on my face be from smiling…

…while I still have teeth to smile with! : ) -Mary

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